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What’s on it

• THE RULE. Trust your read of no. Never trust your read of yes.
• THE LOOP. Offer something small and easy to decline. Read what she does with it. Match the level she showed, or drop back one.
• THE ENGINE. One follow-up question that proves you heard the last answer.
• THE SUBTRACTION. Remove hurry, exposure, obligation and audience.
• SIX OVERRIDES. The rules with no exceptions.
• THE SENTENCE. The only one you really need.

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